Compulsive Sexual Behavior & Gay Men

When managed in a healthy way, an active sex life can be one of life’s greatest gifts. Having been raised in an oppressive society about our homosexuality, sex can take on different meanings for gay men. Whether or not you believe the stereotype of gay men being promiscuous and “sex-starved”, the real truth is that […]

Authenticity and the Gay Identity

Many years ago, when I worked in education, I spent my summers directing outdoor park district activities for kids. The children would come from the neighborhood to play various games. One year I recall a teenage boy coming to the park with a desire to talk with me. He would attend a youth group at […]

Sex & the Single Gay Guy

“To have sex or not to have sex, that is the question.” While it’s certainly important to have a healthy sexuality when you’re single, how you negotiate your sexual behavior as a gay man if you’re on a “boyfriend hunt” can definitely have an impact on helping or hurting your cause. Have you ever gone […]

The Various Parts Of Human Life And How It Impacts Our Development And Sexuality

While we as humans are very complex and complicated beings, we can divide ourselves down into three fundamental components: Mind, Body, and Personality. It’s these elements that create the foundation of who we are, and governs how sexuality develops within our lives. From these three elements, things can further be broken down into Male, Female, […]

Catch Him in the Act – More Indicators to Tell If Your Man is Gay

So you’ve tried all the other lists but you still can’t determine whether your boyfriend is cheating on you or not. Not with another woman, but sadly with another man! Closet gay men who have girlfriends for fronts are actually more common than people think. Watch out because what could be a funny story could […]

Catch Him in the Act – More Indicators to Tell If Your Man is Gay

So you’ve tried all the other lists but you still can’t determine whether your boyfriend is cheating on you or not. Not with another woman, but sadly with another man! Closet gay men who have girlfriends for fronts are actually more common than people think. Watch out because what could be a funny story could […]

Is There A Gay Gene?

Many articles come from an evolutionary or Darwinian perspective. However, explaining homosexuality has long been a problem for evolutionary psychologists in that it is difficult to explain why childlessness would prevail in a world seen through the mentality of “survival of the fittest.” According to an article entitled, “The Origins of Male Homosexuality,” much research […]

If You Are Gay, You Must Be Happy

For me there is no clear answer when people keep on asking and making an issue about opposite sex. Attraction towards same sex doesn’t always mean that you are gay. If you have habits that usually don’t do with your gender, it does not necessarily mean that you are belong in other world of sexes. […]

When A Lover Cheats: Relationship Repair For Gay Couples; Part 1

Nothing destroys the foundation of trust and security in a relationship quite like infidelity does. The gay community at large tends to accept more liberal forms of sexual expression. Without social norms precluding what’s sexually appropriate or not in the context of an intimate relationship, gay men are in a position to choose for themselves […]

Sex & the Single Gay Guy

“To have sex or not to have sex, that is the question.” While it’s certainly important to have a healthy sexuality when you’re single, how you negotiate your sexual behavior as a gay man if you’re on a “boyfriend hunt” can definitely have an impact on helping or hurting your cause. Have you ever gone […]