If You Are Gay, You Must Be Happy

For me there is no clear answer when people keep on asking and making an issue about opposite sex. Attraction towards same sex doesn’t always mean that you are gay. If you have habits that usually don’t do with your gender, it does not necessarily mean that you are belong in other world of sexes. […]

Is There A Gay Gene?

Many articles come from an evolutionary or Darwinian perspective. However, explaining homosexuality has long been a problem for evolutionary psychologists in that it is difficult to explain why childlessness would prevail in a world seen through the mentality of “survival of the fittest.” According to an article entitled, “The Origins of Male Homosexuality,” much research […]

Authenticity and the Gay Identity

Many years ago, when I worked in education, I spent my summers directing outdoor park district activities for kids. The children would come from the neighborhood to play various games. One year I recall a teenage boy coming to the park with a desire to talk with me. He would attend a youth group at […]

Fantasies and Realities of Sexual Performance

When we watch movies, read romantic novels and pornographic literature, sex is always presented in a mind-blowing and very exciting way. The marvelous looking and muscular male bodies with the pointing voluminous female breasts coupled with red hot inviting lips could drive even the greatest of saints wild with ecstasy. But, is this so in […]

Adult Toy Stores – In Person Vs Online

Maybe you’ve never been to an adult book store, but you are ready to get that dildo or vibrator of your dreams. Some of you might have made trips to those raunchy stores in the past and are looking for an alternative. Before you head to your local sex toy store, let’s go over the […]

When A Lover Cheats: Relationship Repair For Gay Couples; Part 1

Nothing destroys the foundation of trust and security in a relationship quite like infidelity does. The gay community at large tends to accept more liberal forms of sexual expression. Without social norms precluding what’s sexually appropriate or not in the context of an intimate relationship, gay men are in a position to choose for themselves […]

5 Movies Worth Watching to Understand Sexual Encounters

Today we are going to list the movies that are a must watch to understand underlying sexual tension. There are scenes in these movies which have become immortal. The crux here is to under stand the sexual language being used and the way the two parties involved actually complement each other. These are well choreographed […]

Sex & the Single Gay Guy

“To have sex or not to have sex, that is the question.” While it’s certainly important to have a healthy sexuality when you’re single, how you negotiate your sexual behavior as a gay man if you’re on a “boyfriend hunt” can definitely have an impact on helping or hurting your cause. Have you ever gone […]

Compulsive Sexual Behavior & Gay Men

When managed in a healthy way, an active sex life can be one of life’s greatest gifts. Having been raised in an oppressive society about our homosexuality, sex can take on different meanings for gay men. Whether or not you believe the stereotype of gay men being promiscuous and “sex-starved”, the real truth is that […]

Watching Adult Sex Videos Together – Movies Make Magic

Although they still have a stigma for many people, watching adult sex videos with your spouse can be a really great way to improve your marriage sex. Available in as many different varieties as there are types of people in the world, you can watch everything from very basic, “soft porn” as it is called […]